Comments for The Continued Life of Monkey Boy

Comment on Disneyland Dad by Flea

Flea — Thu, 10 May 2012 05:42:30 +0000

Last time I read your blog you just had your baby. I’m so so sorry to read about your divorce.
Been there done that and yes, it truly sucks!! All the best!

Comment on Disneyland Dad by Keri

Keri — Thu, 05 Apr 2012 17:41:53 +0000

It has probably been 3 maybe 4 years since I last visited your blog. I suppose the last time was around the time you bought a Prius. It was strange, you were the first person I “knew” and at the same time didn’t know that bought a Prius. I was saddened to read about your divorce, as a person who is married to a divorcee with a daughter, I understand the your feelings about missing out on such a big event. There will be more, many more and I hope you have a chance to witness them all.

With all that being said, I’ve always admired your style of writing and it is what brought me back while I was rediscovering some bookmarks. I wish you the very best from across the U.S.

Comment on Disneyland Dad by lessinges

lessinges — Mon, 02 Apr 2012 07:51:33 +0000

Lesley, you’re right about what you’ve heard. It’s not easy in the least bit. I will say time does heel the wounds and makes things better. It wasn’t fun the first few months, but almost a year after I moved out (11 months), things are pretty awesome. We’re blazing new paths often and taking things as they come. Thanks for sharing the stories about your friends.

Comment on Disneyland Dad by lessinges

lessinges — Mon, 02 Apr 2012 07:48:15 +0000

Lynnea, thank you very much. That’s very sweet of you to say. She really makes me so happy and I’m in awe of the person she is today. I can’t imagine how I will feel 5-10 years from now. Perhaps that could change when she’s a teenager, I hope not.

Comment on Disneyland Dad by lessinges

lessinges — Mon, 02 Apr 2012 07:46:47 +0000

Pipes, thanks for the sentiments. I have been treated fairly by my ex-wife so I’m thankful that story doesn’t apply to me.

Comment on Disneyland Dad by lessinges

lessinges — Mon, 02 Apr 2012 07:44:33 +0000

Meg, I can’t thank you enough for this comment. When I first read it, it made me cry. I thank you for this. I value your opinion given the way you’ve been raised and how well-adjusted you are. You’re right, there will be other opportunities for me. We’ve enjoyed lots of new experiences in the past eleven months and I couldn’t be more pleased with how well she has done with all of it. Thanks again for the sincere comment.

Comment on Disneyland Dad by lessinges

lessinges — Mon, 02 Apr 2012 07:41:24 +0000

Sizzle, how are things now between them. I know it’s a month later, but a lot can change within four weeks. I know what you mean about the troubles they have attempting to map out the next twelve months. It was not easy. I was rather despondent during the mediation, but we did work it out. With major holidays we try to split the day and maybe even share some time with Baby Singe. Easter is coming up so this will be a good test for how well it’s working so far. Selling off the jointly-owned home was a nightmare…almost worse than the actual divorce. I take that back, for sure worse than the rest of it. Such a pain to divide belongings, responsibilities, money, etc. amongst the two new households. Sounds like they’re doing a good job keeping your nephew happy and not impacted. Good luck to them.

Comment on Disneyland Dad by lessinges

lessinges — Mon, 02 Apr 2012 07:35:51 +0000

Bob, how are things going not that you’re into your routine more? Are you getting more settled and has the video conferencing worked well enough? I know it’s not a great substitute, but it’s not too bad. We need to get together when you’re here and hang.

You’re very right about how it puts things in perspective. I’m happy I do have shared custody and that I’m not in the middle of a war in Afghanistan. I don’t have a clue how they can make that work. Hats off to them. Thanks for the warm words Bob.

Comment on Disneyland Dad by lessinges

lessinges — Mon, 02 Apr 2012 07:32:05 +0000

Gin Berlin, thanks for the comments. I’m not going to attend Disneyland with them. It’s turned into a nice girls outing as a friend and her daughter are also going at the same time. That should make it a really fun time for them. My ex-wife and I aren’t so much friends anymore, but we’re totally civil with each other (pretending not necessary)

Comment on Disneyland Dad by megabrooke

megabrooke — Wed, 07 Mar 2012 15:31:59 +0000

I’m sorry that you’re missing out on such a big experience; it’s really hard, I can only imagine. Hopefully you will be able to plan a trip with just the two of you which believe me, she will remember and treasure just as much. Disney is fun and exciting, sure.. but your little one is going to enjoy her vacations more because of the love she feels coming her way than the actual trip itself. Thinking of you and sending you some good vibes that this time isn’t too hard for you…